Sex and the CT
advice
Sex & the CT: Long-distance relationships
All relationships take attention and effort, but long-distance ones demand a unique commitment from both parties. Read More
boundaries
Sex & the CT: beginner’s guide to casual sex
Casual sex (often dubbed “hookup culture”) is simply the thrill of having sexual partners without the pressure of a relationship. This way, you can worry about your next orgasm, and not your next argument. Read More
orgasm
Bridging the Orgasm Gap with Professor Estrada
For those who aren’t aware, the orgasm gap is the rate of difference between the frequency of women’s orgasms compared to that of men’s orgasms during a sexual encounter, typically associated with heteronormative relationships. Read More
consent
Sex and the CT: Back to the basics
In conclusion: If you have hit a rut in your sex life, bring it back to the basics. Read More
bdsm
Sex and the CT: Wine me, dine me, choke me
Wine me, dine me, choke me until I can't speak to ask you to stop. Read More
meliora
The Wilder attack campus climate survey
We can live our “Meliora values” when the university starts listening to survivors to enact real change. Read More
advice
Sex & The CT: Navigating relationships at UR
Allow yourself to enjoy the experience of college, go in with an IDGAF attitude, and just have fun! Read More
from the archives
From The Archives: the history of Sex & the CT
The first iteration that I could find was from Sept. 13, 2001 — an unfortunate time for the start of such a column — with the title, “Clean feet, dirty thoughts make the man.” Read More
Sex & CT
Sex & the CT: Goth girlfriends?
Being the Goth Girlfriend means I am a hot, brilliant, funny woman who adores Friday the 13th, tarot cards, astrology, and The Cure, and who loves threesomes and anal sex. Read More
Sex and the CT
Being intimate without having sex
On several occasions, my ex and I found ourselves watching shows like “Star Trek” together. If you’re wondering where “Star Trek” and sex fit together, here’s a hint: they generally don’t. Learn about being asexual and having sex-free relationships. Read More
