Sex and the CT

What to do, how to act when two become three

You might be limiting your pleasure when it comes to sex if you unwaveringly stick to experiences meant for two. Why not three? Read about various DOs and DON'Ts to decide if a threesome is right for you. Read More

Reality can’t match the ‘happily ever after’ of fairy tales

Ever wonder why your love life doesn't parallel that of Cinderella's? An unfortunate misalignment between reality and fairy tales causes a premature search for true love. Read More

From the blogger to the drug addict: the perils, pitfalls and practicalities of penetration

Some people you'll meet are perfect candidates for sex. Bloggers, drug addicts and enemies are not among those contenders. Read More

Men: Struggling to perform

If you were to ask most people who have sex why they do it, I think the majority would respond “because it feels good.” Given that fact, the number of people who have trouble climaxing — or don’t climax at all — is entirely counter-intuitive. I’m guessing the phrase “erectile dysfunction” has popped into everyone’s […]

Be more adventurous and indulge your fetishes

I know a girl who had a boyfriend with a “baby” fetish, and on more than one occasion she indulged him by wearing a diaper. This may go without saying, but take note that she did not actually enjoy dressing up like an infant or directly benefit from it any way — she was simply […]

The ins, outs and expectations of hooking up

Let Sex & the CT help you define "hooking up" and what you can expect in a friends with benefits relationship. Read More

Don't rule out playing for both teams

Sex & the CT explores the social implications of bi-curiosity. Read More

Closing the gap of long distance relationships

Relationships are not all about sex. I know that’s a strange start to an article for Sex & the CT, but before the riots break out, let me explain. As of this week, I’ve been in a committed relationship for a year and a half — which doesn’t sound too out-of-the-ordinary, except that on most […]

Avoiding awkward roommate moments

How to avoid awkward confrontations when your roommate wants to have sex. Read More

Blue balls in your court: dispelling a dating myth

Dispelling the myth that women hold all the control in relationships. Read More